Woah. This is a great and insightful comment about avoiding your own trauma by preaching to others. I see this a lot. People big on meditation and peace and Buddhism etc actually being very damaged. Huge generalisation I know, and this isn’t most people, but that stereotype exists for a reason. Sometimes recovery isn’t about candles and going ooomm but down and dirty therapy, anger and ultimately forgiveness. I think. Again, who am I to say :)